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found out a few months ago that my husband is a junkie - I mean, like so hooked on narcotics - almost lost his job, still might - I’ve started making plans to leave although he has gone through detox (withdrawals and what not). He lied to me so much in the past year because of his addiction. I supported him through withdrawals and trying to quit - but I don’t believe he really will - am I wrong not to trust him or try to suppot him when all he does is whine and complain about his pai...Read the full article

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Hi,
Firstly, I'm an addict but I just want to offer a suggest that may help you. Try Al-Anon. It's a 12 Step group for spouses and family members of an alcoholic or addict. Right now you may disagree with me, but you'll learn that the spouse is just as sick as the addict himself. Whether you leave him or not will be your choice in the end, but with Al-Anon you'll learn the tools to make informative decisions. You'll meet others who share your confusion, fears, misunderstandings, and comfort.
I wish you both the best.